Haters... Love Them, Embrace Them.
For this week's topic I thought it would be a great idea to do a special one for Valentine's Day. Wait a second you are probably wondering but Bobby your topic mentions 'haters". Yeah it does and it obviously got your attention to get you here to read this. Well that's because I truly believe we should celebrate love with each other every day regardless of what day of the year it is. So let's dive right into this week's topic.
Haters, what is a hater? The true definition of a hater is someone who dislikes intensely or passionately. Although, we all might have our own definition of a hater, especially in today's culture, but all in all they all correlate with the each other. Regardless, of what it means to you we all have had our own experience with haters and have learned to deal with them as well. Most notably, what we have learned from those experiences we have learned to apply them to our life. (Remember last week's topic.) We all have once in our life played both sides of the equation whether we like to admit it or not, I am not here to judge anyone.
So you might be asking yourself well why do we need to love and embrace haters? Well, as a believer of God, it says in the bible that we must love our enemies and forgive them. Which I totally agree with because if you do not, how will you ever grow spiritually or develop any inner peace? I mean we are all meant to live a happy life and in order to do so you need to forgive or else you will never be happy. I can assure you once you let go of this you will start to appreciate and enjoy life on a whole other level.
As much as we all would love to live in a world without hate, it just would not be the same. Haters are always going to exist and they are always going to do what they do best which is hate. What I truly love about the whole psychology of haters, is capturing attention. That's right, but you are like wondering how is this so? Well, I mean if they are interested on spending their time on you, you must be doing something right in your life that they are just envious with the type of life you chose to live. The matter of fact is that they are spending their time on you which means all their attention is on you.
You need to be able to look at the positive effect of this and not focus so much on the negative effect on it. Yeah I understand it might bother you and upset you at times but by expressing these feelings you are becoming vulnerable to them. When you show weakness you degrade yourself to their level because they are setting you up to fall into their trap and play their game.
Bottom line is focus your attention on better and important things in your life. The key objective here is to learn to love and embrace haters. In the end, you will appreciate them for your success and triumphs because you know they were watching you along your journey. On that note, enjoy your day with your loved ones and the ones you truly care about. By all means go out and spend your money on gifts and what not on them today and show them your appreciation for their love.
Y'all have a great and blessed weekend, until next week. God bless. Cheers!
P.S.
Here's a little something for your Flashback Friday. Enjoy!
Haters, what is a hater? The true definition of a hater is someone who dislikes intensely or passionately. Although, we all might have our own definition of a hater, especially in today's culture, but all in all they all correlate with the each other. Regardless, of what it means to you we all have had our own experience with haters and have learned to deal with them as well. Most notably, what we have learned from those experiences we have learned to apply them to our life. (Remember last week's topic.) We all have once in our life played both sides of the equation whether we like to admit it or not, I am not here to judge anyone.
So you might be asking yourself well why do we need to love and embrace haters? Well, as a believer of God, it says in the bible that we must love our enemies and forgive them. Which I totally agree with because if you do not, how will you ever grow spiritually or develop any inner peace? I mean we are all meant to live a happy life and in order to do so you need to forgive or else you will never be happy. I can assure you once you let go of this you will start to appreciate and enjoy life on a whole other level.
As much as we all would love to live in a world without hate, it just would not be the same. Haters are always going to exist and they are always going to do what they do best which is hate. What I truly love about the whole psychology of haters, is capturing attention. That's right, but you are like wondering how is this so? Well, I mean if they are interested on spending their time on you, you must be doing something right in your life that they are just envious with the type of life you chose to live. The matter of fact is that they are spending their time on you which means all their attention is on you.
You need to be able to look at the positive effect of this and not focus so much on the negative effect on it. Yeah I understand it might bother you and upset you at times but by expressing these feelings you are becoming vulnerable to them. When you show weakness you degrade yourself to their level because they are setting you up to fall into their trap and play their game.
Bottom line is focus your attention on better and important things in your life. The key objective here is to learn to love and embrace haters. In the end, you will appreciate them for your success and triumphs because you know they were watching you along your journey. On that note, enjoy your day with your loved ones and the ones you truly care about. By all means go out and spend your money on gifts and what not on them today and show them your appreciation for their love.
Y'all have a great and blessed weekend, until next week. God bless. Cheers!
P.S.
Here's a little something for your Flashback Friday. Enjoy!
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